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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>Girl in an amazing dystopia trying to touch the world.</description><title>Blissful Nights</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @surrealite)</generator><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>nevver:

Now
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c5b24d0f9da6da39fc00e506b36dfb87/tumblr_mn5pzadRtg1qz6f9yo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thisisnthappiness.com/post/50996486578/now"&gt;nevver&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.newyorkshitty.com/new-york-city/93003"&gt;Now&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51080258080</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51080258080</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 20:34:47 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/8353bf21605daed9942f6f35543a1ccc/tumblr_meox3ipHqc1rudqimo1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51069772279</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51069772279</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 17:09:02 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>muffystopheles:

waitingonthesilentshelf:

dynamicafrica:

A...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ludg4pjgkI1qcerqgo1_r1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://muffystopheles.tumblr.com/post/21536492287/waitingonthesilentshelf-dynamicafrica-a"&gt;muffystopheles&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://waitingonthesilentshelf.tumblr.com/post/21509743617/dynamicafrica-a-senegalese-woman-crosses-the"&gt;waitingonthesilentshelf&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://dynamicafrica.tumblr.com/post/21130027880/a-senegalese-woman-crosses-the-street-in-her"&gt;dynamicafrica&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A Senegalese woman crosses the street in her brightly coloured gown, looking incredibly flawless and fabulous.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;this is beyond beautiful&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;WORK IT you beautiful human being. &lt;3&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51061955189</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51061955189</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 13:43:31 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>"I have a habit of falling in love with souls who have yet to be at peace with their bodies, their..."</title><description>““I have a habit of falling in love with souls who have yet to be at peace with their bodies, their minds, their weaknesses. I try to build them, to find the parts of them that are missing in me.&lt;br/&gt;
I end up with holes in my chest.””&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Farah Gabdon (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://godbutt.tumblr.com/"&gt;godbutt&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51056262296</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51056262296</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 10:17:33 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>pastel-goth-princess:

❤
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/5bd12826cc7abab0eaa5001a9ef9103f/tumblr_mkwtw70RYK1r309p1o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://pastel-goth-princess.tumblr.com/post/47559782264"&gt;pastel-goth-princess&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;❤&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51046215017</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51046215017</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 06:51:39 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>nevver:

The right picture helps
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/228278b1ade8b11b3a6b94032b538523/tumblr_mmht2t8c7t1qz6f9yo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thisisnthappiness.com/post/49947129619/the-right-picture-helps"&gt;nevver&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.skny.com/artists/joseph-kosuth/images/"&gt;The right picture helps&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51029806982</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/51029806982</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 03:26:05 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/123981ca3d25c1f8273663751557c87d/tumblr_mmhde9sHhp1snyyflo1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/9da1a7455b0ce8abb022577023bebdc3/tumblr_mmhde9sHhp1snyyflo2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/efb91b907ba12082c9260d6a6c99604b/tumblr_mmhde9sHhp1snyyflo3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3aad3a5d42f88eb2f70811604130091c/tumblr_mmhde9sHhp1snyyflo4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/1931d6e6007fe08bde37da67c0914de5/tumblr_mmhde9sHhp1snyyflo5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e56d8660db7ed3232a5557fcef84fec8/tumblr_mmhde9sHhp1snyyflo6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d58fce0aa03562a9f2bb121b9b8e60d9/tumblr_mmhde9sHhp1snyyflo7_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/64421a3a7bbc73f5ca19bf88b8be3f84/tumblr_mmhde9sHhp1snyyflo8_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50999951856</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50999951856</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 20:34:53 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>carnivalowl:

Saying that a man and a woman can’t be “just” friends is like assuming that a bisexual...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://carnivalowl.tumblr.com/post/45361089310/saying-that-a-man-and-a-woman-cant-be-just"&gt;carnivalowl&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Saying that a man and a woman can’t be “just” friends is like assuming that a bisexual can’t have any friends at all because they might get a sudden urge to fuck them.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50989330668</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50989330668</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 17:08:54 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>nevver:

die Bibliothek
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/4cd91be9385e85603db6412af11fe281/tumblr_mmhq3sS1Jq1qz6f9yo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/308d38772bafbf82db242466c103e418/tumblr_mmhq3sS1Jq1qz6f9yo2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thisisnthappiness.com/post/49943596148/die-bibliothek"&gt;nevver&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.moma.org/explore/inside_out/2013/05/08/henri-labroustes-precision-and-liberty-2/?utm_source=feedly"&gt;die Bibliothek&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50981531872</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50981531872</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 13:43:14 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/93be31bbe5369801251fda3873f5075e/tumblr_mfrtwaEM5X1qiz3j8o1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50975626518</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50975626518</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 10:17:23 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/23066ef119c5d55f42ab4db4b8cdba30/tumblr_mlxxso50Fg1qesepao1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50965193588</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50965193588</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 06:51:53 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>"Who wants to know that the person you love and need the most can just vanish forever?"</title><description>“Who wants to know that the person you love and need the most can just vanish forever?”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Jandy Nelson, &lt;em&gt;The Sky Is Everywhere&lt;/em&gt; (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://simply-quotes.net/"&gt;simply-quotes&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50948626815</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50948626815</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 03:26:19 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/16aab2b1e713749827317987acedcad6/tumblr_mkcdjivGRB1r677zso1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/4c3b0fafdedd585de6c5ad578c591b08/tumblr_mkcdjivGRB1r677zso2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50918351762</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50918351762</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 20:34:46 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>"As a trans woman, not many things give me a headache the way the entire concept of passing does...."</title><description>“As a trans woman, not many things give me a headache the way the entire concept of passing does. Passing is the idea that if a trans woman (or any person who is presenting as a woman) looks, dresses and acts a certain way, people won’t be able to tell they are anything other than a completely “normal” woman. If you look at online trans communities or forums, you’ll find tons of tips on how to pass better – everything from hair removal tips to workouts to how to walk and sit more femininely.&lt;br/&gt;
All of this presupposes that there is only one right way to look like and be a woman. And it’s infuriating. On the one hand, whenever I go out in public or post pictures online, a part of me is deathly afraid that I’ll be insulted or worse. I desperately want to be accepted as the woman I am. On the other hand, I hate that in order to feel safe, I’m expected to fit into the very narrow box that is labeled “woman.” Tips on how to pass always seem to say that you should avoid building muscle mass and avoid wearing clothes and makeup that are too costumey, that you should try to hide your shoulders and soften your features. Trans women are often told that if we want to pass, we have to try our hardest to be petite, soft, have just the right amount of femininity, and not stand out too much. But what if I want to be a different kind of woman? What if I want to look like Grace Jones or Kate Moennig? What if I want to look like Beth Ditto or Dolly Parton? They’re all cis women; don’t they pass?”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;Meyllen Djneres (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://muffinsandcouture.tumblr.com/"&gt;muffinsandcouture&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The moral of “passing” discussions always seems to be:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you get bashed it will be your fault.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://charthebutcher.tumblr.com/"&gt;charthebutcher&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Do you even know how badly I’ve been needing to hear exactly these words for the past few months now?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://sixtyforty.tumblr.com/"&gt;sixtyforty&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;*slow clap——&gt; standing ovation* yes! Yes yes!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://boyqueen.tumblr.com/"&gt;boyqueen&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;omg when i started transitioning Kate Moennig was legit my goal&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://dizzzyrichardpig.tumblr.com/"&gt;dizzzyrichardpig&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i just need this on my blog again&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://boyqueen.tumblr.com/"&gt;boyqueen&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50907245977</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50907245977</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 17:10:13 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>iceonthesink:

F. Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/86c882eed0c9f2f7110b0766a7233753/tumblr_mli2ghKlSV1r0o7b6o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://iceonthesink.tumblr.com/post/50563210238/f-scott-and-zelda-fitzgerald"&gt;iceonthesink&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;F. Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50907242826</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50907242826</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 17:10:09 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>swolemamba:

yay
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f584b222dcc89e8ecaa5aa17113eb391/tumblr_mhardwiHEz1rhpirxo1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://swolemamba.tumblr.com/post/50782138195/yay"&gt;swolemamba&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;yay&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50907192850</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50907192850</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 17:09:04 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/2f9a84bc3fcd53445d593fe0df1debfc/tumblr_mma0ulwsbi1r28w8go1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50899016028</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50899016028</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 13:43:07 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/b4960c2c3ed9cdc3a73b740e2c2c1d00/tumblr_mj5cni6vXw1rqgiwuo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50892643864</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50892643864</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 10:17:32 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>
For some alcohol-induced reason—maybe I´d seen Captains...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/2392a1861300c30b3466e2f0d28f5ab1/tumblr_mfih8arQ6f1qbsbnoo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;For some alcohol-induced reason—maybe I´d seen Captains Courageous one time too many— I´d decided it was my duty to stay on board and bale the goddamn thing out. By this time, Frank´s temper had reached its limits. “Get off that fucking boat while there´s still time, you fucking fool”, he roared, shaking his fist in exasperation. “Go fuck yourself,” I replied, always the lady. “I´m staying here.” It was about that time that I discovered that this fancy boat was stocked with a monstrous amount of toilet paper. Why in the name of God the owners had decided to store so much on one boat I´ll never know. But all the champagne I´d drunk convinced me that this wealth must be shared with the world. So I unwrapped roll after roll and floated them all off in general direction of Frank. His rage was now off the charts, and he screamed a variety of curses in my direction that even I found impressive, but nothing he said deterred me from my appointed rounds. Eventually, the boat began to sink in earnest, and I carefully joined Frank on the shore, carrying with me, with perfect survivor´s insticts, the last bottle of champagne and two glasses. We managed to get the bottle open and sat down to regard the scene. What was a little rumpus between lovers, anyway? We clinked glasses, laughed and made up.” &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;strong&gt;—Ava Gardner: My Story&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50881972105</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50881972105</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 06:52:02 +0300</pubDate></item><item><title>almightykushlord:

if you hesitate to kiss a girl after she sucked your stuff up you need to put...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://almightykushlord.tumblr.com/post/47815683645/if-you-hesitate-to-kiss-a-girl-after-she-sucked"&gt;almightykushlord&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if you hesitate to kiss a girl after she sucked your stuff up you need to put your clothes on and go home because you’re a child&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50866121879</link><guid>http://surrealite.tumblr.com/post/50866121879</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 03:26:02 +0300</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
